BROOKE DAVIS

MEN > BOYS

This one’s inspired by my recent findings…
In the least cockiest and trashiest way, I think it’s safe to say I’ve “dealt” or “checked” or “been” (your pick) with my fair share of boys. But not until you really see what guys are capable of once they become real men, can you really pass judgment on all guys.

“Boys will be boys”? No shit Sherlock, go find yourself a man!

I’m not trying to make anyone look bad, but chances are if you feel offended by this, you’re with or still are a “boy”. You always hear the “good guys” say, “Good guys always finish last”. News flash… it’s things like that, that set men apart form boys. Men don’t have time to mope around and compare themselves to other guys. They find no need to put themselves on pedestals, flagging down a girl to see how “good” they really are. A man shows confidence in what he has to offer, and will be himself whether a girl likes or dislikes what she sees because in the end he knows he’s doing things for himself and doesn’t need comparison or to put up a façade to get a girl’s attention. Basically what I’ve come to find is that…

A man will make you feel secure without constantly telling you he loves you, but still says it at times where it matters. When you just finished arguing, and you say “I’m going to sleep now, I’ll talk to you tomorrow” (and still secretly want him to call you back) A man wont because instead of falling for your reverse psychology, he takes you seriously and respects what you want. So instead of calling you back, he’ll wait until the morning and check up on you then. A man will show he’s attracted to you without needing to be physical or intimate. A man wont be afraid to say he’s sorry and admit his faults without expecting you to do the same. A man isn’t afraid to call you out when you’re being stupid, but can care about you enough to help you be better and support you. A man can be apart from you but never lose sight of why he’s with you because he likes you for the person that you are (which for the most part doesn’t change) , and not “the idea of you” (which can easily change). A man doesn’t tell you everything you want to hear because he’ll show you, and if he falls short and leaves you un-sure, he may not catch on to your subtle hints, instead he’ll expect you to tell him straight up so he can be better. A man wont count or keep track of good thing he’s done for you, he’ll never remember because he did them subconsciously. A man does those things not because it makes him feel like a “better boyfriend” but because making you happy makes him happy.

Pretty much sounds like a dream guy huh?… but they’re out there! Ladies be patient and wait for him. Maybe he’s the boy that’s standing right in front of your face, he just needs time. So at the end of the day good guys don’t finish last… men do because like I said they’re not flagging a girl down to get noticed. Think about it…

GOOD NIGHT!